April, May, June Screwup topics needed

topic posted Mon, March 17, 2008 - 1:51 PM by  Nerd
Hey good peeps....we need topics for the next quarter for screwup. We'll probably be moving to a site on Market street, just fyi.

You don't have to consider yourself an expert...Screwup is diy, so if you have a passion or an interest, just share that experience, how others can do it, do a little research on helpful things to share (nothing like learning while sharing), and ideally something folks can do in the setting. Those are my helpful hints, and not necessarily what is expected by others who attend.

Screwup is BDSM for Trans and Queers, so it's helpful if the topic can be trans centric, or really inclusive of trans issues/awareness, it can be a sex positive presentation, instead of BDSM (like I did a porn night in febuary, but it was trans porn). March was on fun with ropes.

Post here or the screwup yahoo group and folks will help you nail it all down, so to speak.
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  • Re: April, May, June Screwup topics needed

    Tue, March 18, 2008 - 11:39 PM
    This from the yahoo group...any thoughts on narrowing it down ?
    Hi,
    I'm interested in leading/ presenting for screwup in June.
    Topics I could teach -
    bottoming skills
    switching
    pain processing
    safewords - communication for playing at the edge
    SM 101
    traditional leather culture

    Let me know if any of these are interesting.
    Thanks.
    -Rae
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      Re: April, May, June Screwup topics needed

      Tue, May 13, 2008 - 12:08 PM
      Anyone know if Rae is still on-board for June? Thoughts on preferred topic from that list? My two cents say we haven't had anything on traditional leather culture that I know of....
      Can someone contact Rae and firm up with him? I'm lacking contact info. Also, if Rae's in, could we get a blurb a.s.a.p. so we can promote in advance?

      Thanks all,

      Jay
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        Tue, May 13, 2008 - 6:21 PM
        Good point - i'd love me a "traditional" leather culture thing.

        Also - and this might be getting too coordinated for us - but it occurs to me that

        a) we could flier at the tranny picnic this weekend if we had a blurb by then and

        b) if we had a july topic by all the pride happenings, we could flier then too

        neato,
        me
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          Tue, May 13, 2008 - 8:54 PM
          Ok -

          Checked in with Rae - he's into doing June's Screwup. I'll coordinate with him to see if we can't get a blurb happening by this weekend. I suppose i could throw together a flier as well. I'll try my very best. Heh.

          -me
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    Re: April, May, June Screwup topics needed

    Mon, March 24, 2008 - 11:13 AM
    Can someone check in with Femina Potens for April Screwup space? I was also thinking about whether they might be willing to commit to every month space for us, even if there is a show up... It would be great to be in one place ongoing. I'm looking into the LGBT center for the same, but feel like FP is a little more our speed for comfort.
    Cheers,
    Jay
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      Tue, March 25, 2008 - 6:30 PM
      I'll email - since I can reply to my email thread from last month's request...

      I'll post what I find when I find.

      nifty.
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        Wed, March 26, 2008 - 12:13 PM
        Femina Potens is booked up for April, but is really excited to host screwup beginning in May.

        What kind of space fee/contribution do you think we'd really be able to offer them? Not sure what other spaces are renting for, but I suspect there's a middle ground between nothing and a lot that we could manage.

        Thoughts?
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          Wed, March 26, 2008 - 12:54 PM
          in the past femina potens have asked for 1 to 2 dollars per person attending as a donation and to just give at the end of the night based on how many people come. That's what screwup has done for the two time they used femina potens.
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            Sat, March 29, 2008 - 10:29 AM
            Awesome. thanks for the info. i just passed that along to the folks at FP. they're offering us a sliding scale so that only if we have a tiny attendance will it be more than 1-2 per person.

            What do we think? is it worth paying a reasonable sliding scale for a stable place and not having to look around all the time? (that was a leading question on my part) also - FP is a non profit that is trying to be a good community space. I'm in favor...

            -Mykkah
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    Wed, May 14, 2008 - 12:50 PM
    July idea:

    Hey folks,

    We could do a Pride Month decompression type event in July. A meet and Greet break out of the scene-box get to know yer neighbor type soiree? It could focus on getting some shy folks in, new folks who are scared of the "clique" type setting often found in BDSM groups, long-time screw-uppers who'd like to meet new folks, ect. Small group discussions could switch up so everyone gets a chance to hear each other. Something relatively relaxing and yet interactive (I know...a paradox for some, but it could work). I love teachings and demos and stuff, and I also love discussion driven stuff that doesn't have a "teacher"....we haven't done that in a bit.

    If someone would be willing to co-facilitate w/ me, I'd be up for putting this together in time for flyers in June. I'm up[ for workin' w/ folks I haven't met (yet)!

    jenn
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      Re: April, May, June Screwup topics needed

      Thu, May 15, 2008 - 1:19 AM
      Nice idea. I think it might be nice to have a mingler... are you thinking topics when we break into groups, or getting to know you stuff, other?
      Yay for July topic!
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        Thu, May 15, 2008 - 10:19 AM
        Topics in small groups, or maybe having a list of topics that each group could choose from. I'd LOVE to harvest topic ideas from this crew ! Some getting to know you stuff (I learned some really fun 1 on 1 and group exercises relating to top/bottom communication....both physical and verbal...they are improv acting exercises!).

        And well, what do people want? what do you want to do when surrounded by a bunch of curious, new and old screw-uppers? (um, within context...or at least some of the ideas within context :) ) Especially the more shy folks.....how would you like support in meeting folks at screw-up and interacting with them?

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