So, I just had a hysterectomy two weeks ago. It was laproscopic and I got to keep my cervix. It's technically called a supra-cervical laproscopic hysterectomy.
One of the things my doctors did not tell me was that my orgasms would change without my uterus. I used to have these very intense orgasms with lots of contractions, that I now find out were probably uterine contractions.
My question is if there are any folks out there who have had a hysterectomy did it affect your orgasms? I know some folks who had hystos only use their dicks, but I also know some folks still use their front holes for fucking. Are there things you learned that helped you still have really good orgasms with your "vagina"?
I suppose I could also use some good advice from the ladies who have had vaginas constructed as well, since in some ways we're not all that different. Are there activities that are more sensory or positions that provide more pleasure than others?
Also, where might be a better place to ask these questions? I was hoping there might be queer sex positive sites cause most of the places I find info about hysterectomy tend to be focused on straight married women.
Thanks
-robin
One of the things my doctors did not tell me was that my orgasms would change without my uterus. I used to have these very intense orgasms with lots of contractions, that I now find out were probably uterine contractions.
My question is if there are any folks out there who have had a hysterectomy did it affect your orgasms? I know some folks who had hystos only use their dicks, but I also know some folks still use their front holes for fucking. Are there things you learned that helped you still have really good orgasms with your "vagina"?
I suppose I could also use some good advice from the ladies who have had vaginas constructed as well, since in some ways we're not all that different. Are there activities that are more sensory or positions that provide more pleasure than others?
Also, where might be a better place to ask these questions? I was hoping there might be queer sex positive sites cause most of the places I find info about hysterectomy tend to be focused on straight married women.
Thanks
-robin
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Re: Slightly off topic: Sex without a uterus?
Tue, May 20, 2008 - 2:19 AMbtw, if you would prefer not spill private info in a public tribe, feel very welcome to contact me through the personal messages. thanks alot to the folks who have.
-robin
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Re: Slightly off topic: Sex without a uterus?
Wed, May 28, 2008 - 1:39 PMI am sure you searched with google far and wide but just incase.. this one seemed most extensive
findarticles.com/p/article...05374/pg_1
I also have a friend who had hysterectomy about 2yrs ago. I will talk to her and I will report back.
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Re: Slightly off topic: Sex without a uterus?
Wed, May 28, 2008 - 2:53 PM
Thank you so much for that article!
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Re: Slightly off topic: Sex without a uterus?
Sat, May 31, 2008 - 2:28 AMThanks alot Manutea for the article! I had not found it and found it to be very useful info.
The one thing I have heard over and over is kegels. And if you want to insure good muscle rebuilding then to do them while lying down on your back with your legs up is a good position to engage the right muscles and tendons. No kidding... -
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Re: Slightly off topic: Sex without a uterus?
Sun, June 1, 2008 - 11:34 PMThe kegels not only strengthen the muscles, I've found they can create a stimulating awareness of the clit and vaginal areas. This can be helpful for re-educating your body about experiencing stronger orgasms in those areas. After all, there are three types of orgasmic response in people born with female anatomy -- uterine, vaginal, and clitoral. Some people naturally experience it more in one of those areas than others - but that doesn't mean you can't retrain your body to wake up the awareness in the other areas.
Just a couple of cents tossed in from someone who has a research fascination with orgasmic response. -
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Re: Slightly off topic: Sex without a uterus?
Wed, June 4, 2008 - 2:47 AMThanks Angela!
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